Countdown to ceremony!


Your presence to be with us, whether you're coming from far away or from just down the road, is truly the only gift we need. If you would still like to get us something in honor of the wedding, we would be thrilled if you would consider the following two ideas:

   1. Make a donation in our names to one of two great organizations working on marriage equality in our state.

Equality NC
126 E Hargett Street
Raleigh, NC 27601

Campaign for Southern Equality*
P.O. Box 364
Asheville, NC 28802

Please write "GLADIN-KRAMER/DUDEK WEDDING" on check memo lines or in online donations.  

    2. Help us fix our house!
After many happy years together, we are blessed with pretty much everything we need, including our lovely home which we bought and mostly fixed up in 2008. One major thing that's left is a complete overhaul of our one bathroom, which is years overdue and likely to fall off altogether if we don't get to it soon! would love for your gift to help us make this possible. While checks are preferred as they will save us a processing fee, we've set up a simple way for you to give online. See our renovation registry at

*Check out this video to learn about the We Do Campaign, organized by the Campaign for Southern Equality. No, seriously, watch it. It's amazing.